How often have you felt drained or frustrated by your child’s behavior and then guilty for losing your patience? You’re not alone. ADHD, which affects approximately 7 million U.S. children, makes it difficult to develop the skills to manage attention, emotions, and behavior. As a result, most children with ADHD find it challenging to stay focused and organized, regulate their emotional responses, and behave appropriately in various situations.
We understand how all of this can make parenting a child with ADHD overwhelming. That’s why Laura Joseph, CRNP, our expert at Assured Care Group, is here to help families navigate the challenges of ADHD, providing practical strategies and support that promote a more balanced and stress-free parenting experience.
Parenting a Child with ADHD: 5 ADHD Strategies for Parents and Caregivers
Be Realistic in Your Expectations
Children with ADHD have many unique strengths. They are creative and have boundless energy. They can hyperfocus on tasks they are interested in. Accept your child for who they are. Appreciate their strengths and praise their every effort to support and motivate positive behaviors. Do your best to adjust your expectations to match your child’s abilities. This way, you can keep both of you from feeling overwhelmed and frustrated.
Establish Clear Routines and Stick to Them
Children need structure and predictability to feel safe and secure. Children with ADHD have difficulty with a sense of time (known as “time blindness”). This is a crucial executive skill. And because they struggle with it, your child may have difficulty perceiving time and be unaware of time passing. Establish predictable routines and times for meals, play, homework, and bed to create a sense of stability. Simplify your child’s schedule and set clocks and timers for transition times, meals, or homework. Avoid filling their free time with too many extracurricular activities. For some kids with ADHD, it can just lead to feeling restless or overwhelmed.
Use Positive Reinforcement
Positive reinforcement can go a long way in encouraging positive behaviors, as it helps children feel valued and motivated to keep trying. Make the behavior rules and rewards simple. For example, a small, immediate reward they receive for a specific accomplishment, like letting them pick the family movie for the evening if they clean up their play corner, can boost confidence and cooperation.
Encourage Physical Activity and Play
Physical activity allows children with ADHD to burn off excess energy and manage hyperactivity. It improves focus and promotes better sleep at night. Provide engaging toys and activities and encourage active play to channel their energy and promote creativity. Spending time outdoors is very important for children with ADHD, so encourage them to play outside under supervision as much as possible.
Seek Support (for Your Child and Yourself)
If your child has ADHD, you know that parenting kids with ADHD can be both rewarding and demanding. ADHD counseling for both parents and children can offer practical tools, self-care strategies, and emotional support to navigate challenges with grace and confidence.
How We Can Help
With appropriate ADHD treatment and support, you can help your child develop their talents and manage their extraordinary energy. A therapist can help you focus on your child’s strengths and encourage them to thrive with plenty of love and support. However, therapy can also help you by giving you some useful coping strategies to manage stress, avoid parental burnout, and protect your well-being.
To learn more about the treatment options we offer at Assured Care Group, call 667-304-2974 or book an appointment online today.